This
time around, as a part of this series of posts, we’ll take a look at some
specific things youth ministry programs can focus on to retain their students.
Last time we talked about how the structure of the program can be more
conducive to a high retention, this time we’ll delve into what each night
should look like.
And that’s point number one. Pick a night, any night. One thing my home parish is EXCELLENT at doing is providing an opportunity to join the youth group on Monday nights, for Bible Study, Thursday nights for our youth group meetings, and Saturday nights for an hour of Adoration. Note the days chosen. Monday, Thursday, Saturday. Monday and Thursday are typically nights that are free for just about every student, with the exception of homework. Many students will have plans on Saturday nights, but most of the time, those plans can be shifted to spend an hour with our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament, provided the students are motivated enough. I’m also personally of the opinion that simply meeting one night a week isn’t enough, let alone once a month, as I know some parishes near me to do.
Why is
only one night a week not enough? Because, first off, it allows for some
flexibility with the students. Remember, the entire ministry is all about the
students. The Church has 2,000 years of tradition built up in the past that
should be passed on to these students somehow. And that brings me to the next
point, what the actual content of these meetings should be.
Catechesis,
catechesis, catechesis. Cool, most of these kids made it through the parish
CCD/PRE classes/ whatever religious instruction they’ve had. Now it’s time to treat
them like it. There’s no longer really any need to teach them the “what” of
major Catholic truths. It’s now time to teach them “why” we believe what we
believe. This means it’s time for some form of apologetics instruction. No, it
doesn’t have to be Jimmy Akin/Patrick Madrid/Trent Horn level apologetics. They
just need a basic understanding of what the Catholic Church teaches. And no,
the YouCat is NOT a good source for this.
DON'T use this to teach high school students |
This is
the one time I would advocate looking around at the local non-Catholic Christian
churches, ESPECIALLY the Baptists. Why? Because that’s one thing these groups
somehow do well. They have an uncanny tendency to go rather in-depth in
teaching students how to counter Catholic claims, which means that the students
at the same high schools and colleges as these non-Catholic kids will be faced
with people questioning their beliefs.
If you
need a primer in what specifically in apologetics to instruct the students in,
here are a few of the basic topics every Catholic should be able to give at
least a rudimentary defense for: the Eucharist, Papal authority, Confession to
a priest, Mary stuff, and a few of the less fun social teachings, like Abortion
and Same-Sex Marriage.
And
that brings me to my next point. Youth ministry programs CANNOT be afraid to
talk about hot-button issues. The Church’s stance on Abortion and Same-Sex
Marriage is non-negotiable. It will not change. Get over it. However, the world
has a very large number of convincing apologists for these two issues,
especially the second one. Convince a student to disagree with the Church on
one topic, and it won’t take long for the rest to follow. (I know, slippery
slope argument, but it’s a pretty universal experience). These two topics are
not popular topics, but they are topics that NEED to be discussed.
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These are some of the necessary things to focus on while building a youth group. Next time, we’ll talk about how things should logistically be set up for a successful youth group.
Why do you not recommend the youcat?
ReplyDeleteWell, long story short, it's basically a replacement for the Baltimore Catechism, which was created to teach children. The YouCat, though an admirable idea, is really just a condensed version of the Baltimore Catechism and is too simple to be teaching at a high school level. For CCD/PRE classes or middle schoolers, it's fantastic, but beyond that, it's a little insulting to use as if it's the only book the teens would be able to understand.
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